Virgo Star Sign

6.【处女座】

揭下面具以后的处女座处事冷静、沉着、内敛、稳重；容不得别人的背叛，对背叛自己的人绝不原谅，对敌人下手狠毒，冷血至及。 面具下：多疑、没安全感。他们用情至深，在爱上一个人之后是绝对不会轻言放弃的。但他们只会默默的爱着，悲情暗恋者的典范；内心其实非常的脆弱，非常敏感。

处女座谈感情理性居多，并不是欠缺热情，而是同理心强的他们好像每天在写考卷，明明现在很想你，又怕你在忙所以就没打电话了。明明病的头顶冒烟，怕你陪她太累就告诉你病快好了。谨慎的经营爱情，自我要求不能无理取闹，出发点不自私但让对方无法感受被需要。

处女座很害怕孤单 。处女座懂得浪漫 幻想 。处女座人细心 温柔 大方 善良。处女座很讨厌别人骗他。处女座常常被人说是忽冷忽热。处女座常常让人觉得他们闷闷不乐。处女座对陌生人无视,对不熟的人外热内冷。处女座是不用对别人放电却可以将人电到的唯一星座~~

处女男，幽默，喜欢思考关注讨论人性、社会等，爱看美女，有时很懒，很多事无所谓不在乎，对未来没有明确计划。只喜欢跟有共同话题思想共鸣的人沟通，喜欢自由，不喜欢别人缠，喜欢漂亮、特别、想法比较相同、会享受生活、自主的女孩，假装不懂却把事情看的很透彻。渴望爱却不知怎么保留爱。

处女座怕工作做不好，怕给别人添麻烦这种忧虑心理也会产生一定的弱点。如喜欢钻牛角尖、烦躁、吹毛求疵，无意中引起了紧张的气氛，过多的思考与理智会限制你的视野，加剧对自我生活的控制。担心新事物的出现会打乱原有的一切秩序，并会把自己孤立起来。

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This is the first ever description of a Virgo, that so accurately describes me. Can't say about the love part yet, but the rest are really accurate. After this I'm further convinced that I am a true Virgo! :D 

Perfectionist mindset. Noone can ever tell that I have a perfectionist mindset because I just don't show it. But it's in my character actually... Besides, there are manyyy things about myself I had given up on. But I do excel to be the best, if not in school then in my work. If not my appearance then in my character. I know not to demand too highly of others, but I still do demand highly of myself. I do think that once I put my heart into something, I will really do my best.

I believe in miracles. I believe in the unexpected. Perhaps too much of this beliefs make me exceptionally lazy. 

Maybe this shows why I prefer to change others but not myself. I know I am not the best to start with, but if i see others becoming even better, I genuinely feel happy. 

I like to create perfect people in my head. Perhaps that's the reason why I prefer books to drama. Because the people acting in dramas will never ever be better than those i create in my head. Expectations, as many would say. 

I like being alone, or is it because I hate to disturb others? That's why I hardly make the first move. Without a reason, I won't do it. I just feel really bad when i disturb others. Or did I already outgrew the stage of disturbing people, since thats what I did a lot in Sec sch?

My thoughts: if I was to tell anyone about what i think or feel, it usually gets processed in my head a thousand times over. So most of the time I end up chickening out and losing the courage to do it. A simple sentence can be phrased and rephrased countless times, until it makes perfect sense in a way others will not misunderstand. Yes the Virgo mind is really complicated. Especially mine. 

I'm simple on the outside. In fact, I don't take care of my appearance. I don't see the need to. That's why half the time I end up being so crazy and out of place, until I stand in front of a mirror. But once the mirror is gone, I'm back to being image-less. I'm still slowly giving myself more reasons to take care of my image more, but it's going to take a lot more time and self-persuasion in order to see the change in me. You give me a comment about myself, I'll take days, weeks or months to process it, then give myself more advantages than disadvantages, before I slowly start to change.  And the more often you give me those comments, the more I tend to ignore it and push it even further back. 

Change to me is self-realisation, not because of someone else prodding you, or insisting you to change.